Since Tom’s birthday and starting this series, I’ve had even more messages from his friends. Every day I get to see how loved my boyfriend […]

I believe that not only do the biggest events in our lives shape us, but the smallest ones too. Going through a major journey like […]

So my birthday came around at the end of April. Like everyone born at this time of year, 2020 didn’t quite bring the birthday I […]

As soon as COVID-19 became a serious threat to the UK, I stayed in my flat as much as possible. I knew that this would […]

Please don’t use this post as advice. I’m gonna talk about personal experience, this is not professional advice. Medication is not necessary for everyone.   […]

This chapter may feel a bit different because some of these things feel so recent to me as I write. I mentioned earlier about how […]

I think what I initially felt as confusion, was actually anger. The things I was confused about, like: why this, why now, why us? I […]

The next step in the process was managing Tom’s severe pain and looking at what treatment would suit him best. Unbeknownst to me, they do […]

After months of GP appointments and no answers, Tom found himself in A&E in serious pain. It was made very clear to us that the […]