This chapter may feel a bit different because some of these things feel so recent to me as I write. I mentioned earlier about how much I’ve learnt about cancer from this, and one of those is the extent of what the disease can affect….

I think what I initially felt as confusion, was actually anger. The things I was confused about, like: why this, why now, why us? I don’t think that anyone can really blame me for feeling angry about the situation. This is by far the most…

The next step in the process was managing Tom’s severe pain and looking at what treatment would suit him best. Unbeknownst to me, they do this by producing a DNA profile of the individual cancer- don’t ask me for any more detail than that. After…

After months of GP appointments and no answers, Tom found himself in A&E in serious pain. It was made very clear to us that the doctors were looking for cancer, it was just a case of finding it. When Tom texted me that it was…

This series is an idea that has grown in my head for a while, but now I feel like I actually have things to say. I ran it by Tom, and he thinks any way of helping anyone that might find themselves in this situation…